Assalamualikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu!
Yes, its been a long time I was away, lots of other things were happening which were important too. Today as I was free, So I thought of writing something on the topic which was in my mind for so long. As I was not blogging regularly so excuse me for my first few blogs, I know they will be amateur but they will be getting loads better I hope because all good things take time right? 😉
Before I proceed, I have a question for you?
Tell me … Are you a Positive Magnet or a Negative Magnet?
Wait, I tell you what am I talking about …
In this day and age when stress is inevitable, we all know its part and parcel of the modern-day lifestyle. But you know what, even in this busy and stressful lives of ours, everyone deserves to have everything he loves and desires. Everyone is meant to have a stress free life and feel good about himself and others. And it is possible only if you have a relaxed and positive state of mind. Yes, your mind is everything.
From my experience, I have realised that whatever you wanna do or achieve in your life (either it be your big goals in life or doing nothing … even if its a daily plan, a small household chore or a big project, even if its an act of Ibadah/doing good deeds or even ploting an evil plan for someone) it is all dependant on your mind; your every action and every word is an end product of your mind. With the power of your mind you can make it happen. A positive state of mind can bring you all the goodness in your life and vice versa. Yes, you guessed me right … I am talking about Law of Attraction. Whatever you give out in life, must return to you. It’s the Law of Universe. And If you wanna read more about this subject, I will recommend you read this book named as “The Power” by Rhonda Byrne and her worldwide best seller “The Secret”.
From my experience I have learnt that we can’t change other peoples way of thinking and way of doing things, it’s impossible but what we can do is to change ourselves and the most importing thing to change in ourselves is our way of thinking. We can change our circumstances with our thinking. This is the first and most important thing because our mind is so powerful, and we can create our life with our positive and negative thoughts. Give positive thoughts and feelings and you will change your entire life. Its a simple formula for a happy and peaceful life. For instance; If you just think and feel that “life is really good to me”, “I am really blessed”, “I have so many blessings around”, “Allah has given me so much to be thankful for” … trust me by doing so you will attract back all the people, circumstances, and events that will make life really good for you. Just by changing our way of thinking we can attract the things which are positive. You are a Magnet, if you become a positive magnet then you will start attracting all those positive things in your life and if you give out negative thoughts and feelings and you will magnetise negative circumstances, people and events. Let me give you another example; give help and support a friend who is in need of your time, talk, a hug maybe, whatever, and most surely that help and support will return to you whenever you need it. On the contrary, if you give anger to someone who let you down and that anger will also return to you or if you hurt someone that pain will also return to you, clothed in the circumstances of your life. You see most people always talk about negative situations, about the things what they don’t have and things they don’t love, in this way they attract more negativity than love. Many people who have great happy lives think and talk about what they love more than what they don’t love. By doing so, they gain unlimited access to all the good in life.
If you think negative about others, about your life and circumstances then Ask Allah to give you a positive mind, a mind that thinks positive about people, about His creation, about life and everything in the universe. Declutter your mind from all the negative thoughts and ask for a thankful heart and mind if you really wanna do something good, something productive in your life. Let’s say if you wanna achieve a particular goal, just give positive thoughts and feelings “Yes I can do it” or say “Yes, I will do it” plan and execute, work hard for it and you will get all the circumstances and people leading you towards that goal, believe you me all the powers which Allah has provided to the universe will help you all the way. Same is the case with your relationships, If you are not comfortable in somebody’s presence or you have some ill feelings towards someone then try to change your thoughts, start thinking good about that person and you will attract the positive energy or behaviour from that person. Trust me this is not a bookish knowledge that I am sharing, its an experience of my life.
Point Of Action For this MONTH:
Please start FOCUSING on all the positive things, people, circumstances you have around you and ignore all the negative feelings and thoughts. So let’s try to be a positive Magnet to have a happy, stress free and healthy life.
Try this for at least one week, you yourself will see the difference. Don’t forget to leave a comment below if you tried and share your experience. 🙂
Spread Positive Vibes!